I love being an adult entertainer….dubbed an “performing arts specialist” by my friend Kapri Styles(google her) was one of my more refining moments…ha! None the less I look at my career choice as any other level headed hard working woman would. I give it my all and attempt to present a package at my work environment;one of which i can be proud of….This is why I am so ready to slap the fuck out of a bitch that comes to my job and picks my hard earned money up off the floor! Its bad enough i deal with the harsh realities of my job day end and out…Realities that i am dancing naked for money…being objectified and degraded at the expense of someone else’s pleasure. My damn feet feeling like i been working hard in cotton fields all damn day..Etc etc etc but seriously that is some trifling ass antics some of you other chics pull… I guess what most bothers me are these few little issues…First of all, most women who are not strippers come into a club judging the dancers..Looking at them all sideways n shit..like they just left a revival and the nasty sluts are gonna cough on them..I just laugh cause trust me bitch i probably don’t wanna touch you either…. My other issue is the reason these chics are in there..Look i understand you are trying to find a nigga just like I am difference is im trying to get paid and you are attempting to find a boo…I believe at that present time my plight is greater cause i am NOT trying to get with “random guy” im trying to get “random guy” to shoot me some bread..So you can save the drama of acting to “good” to get a dance but not too prideful to stash ones in your purse or even better pick them up off of the ground. Im thinking to myself even before I was a stripper I never did no shit like that..Id ask the guy for money before i took out of someone else’s mouth… Also furthermore not understanding how exactly does a chick come to the strip club to meet men then be offended when the man isnt showing her any attention..UMMMMM HELLO its a naked chick in his face get a grip bitch…If someone was shaking a steak in my face I definitely would not notice anything else going on myself… oh, and just to shed a little light the avg stripper makes about $50,000 a year so while most of you females come to a strip club turning your nose up and shit…Think about that the next time you go cash your check and decide to look at anotherwoman so damn crazy..I really have no answer to this no solution…I just say go to a strip club to have fun and leave the money on the floor or if a guy hands you money utilize it on the stripper…ugh how sad you cant ask can u have it….ur hiding that shit all willy nilly. I think that the whole regular chick versus stripper chick beef has to stop..We can all work together for a common goal..”mens happiness”…Oh yes and this must also be addressed…Young video chicks STOP BEEFING with entertainers cause yall really look foolish…Unless you are getting paid thousands of dollars solely on ur modeling career imma need you to stop having a problem with strippers…Do you really think what you do is any different? Oh lemmee guess cause you are on tv?  LMAO! bitch no one gives a rats ass….These sad ass rappers aren’t barely even paying chicks to be in videos these days..I have seen a many chicks come into the strip club and act and look like they are being disgusted and forced to be there…I don’t know if you are being forced but if not leave…You that bad of a bitch make the nigga leave…I don’t understand why exactly any woman would necessarily have a problem with a stripper..I could understand maybe not wanting to be and actual entertainer but as far as having an unjustified bias…im not comprehending. This is just a view of mine…not meant to hurt any feelings just something I see that should be addressed…

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  • http://twitter.com/Domi_Versaix Dominique Anderson

    Omg! Females need to keep it real because when it come down to it whether you strip or not (as far as I’m concerned) there is no such thing as free pu$$y anyway.  Please believe if a dude is paying your bills, shopping, trips, or maybe just taking your silly ass to ihop after the club, he’s not doing it for nothing Sh*t be happy he brought your ass because at least that’s one night you know he’s bringing his trickin ass home! I’m a 9 to 5er and i’ve been going to the strip club (with dudes) as just another party scene for years & i always have a good time; and that’s so triflin!  Picking the money up off the floor is the same as taking a waitress tip money off her tables! Someone left it there for the bish because she gave good service…girls who go in the strip club and have an attitude with every naked female she sees will end up sitting at home after the club when she could be out making it rain! *clubrat at heart*

  • NJ9-5GAL

    This is my first time viewing your blog and I like it….

    As for the negative posters…..what the f*ck who the fu*k are you to judge

    Prostitution and stripping are two different careers choices
    A prostitutes trade for making money is to actually have sex
    A strippers trade for making money is just that ….to strip while dancing(and you have to have talent to do it)

    now if hooker decides to shake it fast to enhance the experience of her client or a stripper decides she enjoyed dancing the man with the perfect smile and wants to take it further thats an accessory/addition to their profession(outside what she gets paid to do)…(not every prostitute does it/and not every stripper is down with it)
    again they are two different professions

    Besides every stripper aint a hoe…..I know/heard of more chicks dropping draws for a meal and just to ride in a nice coupe with a dude more than I’ve heard of a stripper dropping theirs for an extra tip…Worst part about it is that most of the hoes that do it do it just for the pleasure of a man and dont even understand their sexuality let alone how to enjoy it with someone else….
    And your missing the point of the whole post… Zeralyn chose her profession and is comfortable with it..She understands the pro’s and the con’s…but what isnt acceptable is some chick coming to a titi bar trying to meet a dude but giving the stripper(the main reason why that dude is there) the side eye….judging them…Something is seriously wrong with the judging ass patron where you resort to going to a titi bar to find a man….He aint there to meet you.. And for you to come and snatch the money SHE worked for IS….unreal…….
    That shit is out

    Ya’ll judgemental hoes are unreal
    SIDEBAR: If you learn to appreciate the trade and can enhance other aspects in your life….wink wink

    This is coming from a 9-5 gal who cant catch a beat(cant dance)….better believe if I could I would be an adult entertainer…….(I think I’m going to say that instead of stripper from now on)

    anywho:
    A hoe is a hoe is a hoe(whether she is a house wife, preacher, police woman, teacher or nurse)

    NUFF SAID

    9-5 gal

  • Req. Girl

    so from tha looks of youre find with beinq nasty & shakinq ya ass for money. thats why there are more younq ladies on te corners or in jail nfor prostitution than in someones classroom or having a real job that requires skill, because people like ya self are promotinq this and makinq it seem like the lavish life. anyone & every female can thrust their vignia and butt around thats not a talent or skill jusy an easier way to say im worthless and will do anythinq for some dollars. so if your grandmother, mother, sister or dauqhter was a “PERFORMING ARTS SPECIALIST” you would be there tippinq her ?

  • beckybabe

    Real talk!

  • Risse

    Hey, I just wanted to say that I feel you, I have a lot of respect for where your mind is at and what you’re trying to do. You’re making a WHOLE LOT more sense than the average female out here as far as I can see, so you keep your head up mama and continue to do what you do, until YOU get tired. Let them say and think what they will because at the end of the day who is going to do you like you need to be done? You. So, unless they can match that or you’re comfy with their offer, it’s a wrap. But you seem to already know… Much Love!

  • d rock

    Well said. I’m not a stripper and never have been. Just a chick working to make a living. I can’t help but agree with you on the point of chicks going to clubs to meet men. Me personally, I only go with dudes I’m dating. And shit, if he’s giving me $$$, better believe I’m gonna throw it at the top 3 baddest chicks working the pole. And I’ll even pull my own cash out to get him a lap dance. Strip clubs are supposed to be fun. If you gonna go there to grill the strippers, you need not go! Strippers are doing a service and to be honest they helping me out cause by the time we are leaving the club, the man I’m with is usually more aroused by ever. And the fact he keeps replaying the lap dances he bought for me, he wants me even more. So wanna thank you for your kind services! And better believe I’m taking notes on those moves that I will try at home! wink wink!

  • LL KOOL K

    HUMMM NICE BLOG, AND GOOD POINT I FEEL TOO MANY PEOPLE ARE JUDGEMENTAL ABOUT PROFESSIONS. SOMEONE PEOPLE DO NOT AGREE WITH YOUR JOB AND THAT’S FINE..BUT DAMN, KEEP YA OPINIONS TO YOURSELF…I APPLAUD YOU FOR WRITING THIS BLOG..

  • Nat

    Well put girl, I am new to the site but I feel you. I danced for about 6mo some years ago so I know how the game goes. keep doing you and play the game….dont let it play you. its all about that cash. Much respect….

  • Tae

    I’ve always envied strippers. They have an amazing amount of confidence I WISH I had, which is why so many chicks act like all high and mighty around stippers. Actually, one bullet on my bucket list is to pay a stripper for an instructional lap dance. I stink at dancing, and some direction would be nice. I’ll be sure to look you up when I’m in D-Town (smile). Oh, and I’ll bring a nice tip too:>)

    @Regular chick: I said the same thing about stripping being a deplorable profession until my buddy went to Vegas and made a great career for herself…AS A STRIPPER. She’s doing really well for herself, she’s happy with what she’s doing and not ashamed of her profession. If Zeralyn (or any other stipper) is happy with themselves and what they are doing, I say keep going and live this short life until the breaks fall off. But, just like everything else in life, if you’re ashamed of what you’re doing, then leave it alone.

  • LA Chic

    $50k a yr to shake yo ass thats depressing! Thats not even $5k a month. You should consider a regular job where u don’t have to worry about nobody stealing your pay check. I’m not hating hell I respect anybody huatle but I just knew yall was making more than I made at 23 yrs old.

  • Chuntel

    All that for 50k? Glad I went to college…but do you boo-no hate!!

  • Tiffany

    This is well put. Im a regular 9-5 chic. I like going to strip clubs. I really respect the dancers who are getting it in the clubs. Lol hell I’ve even asked one chic to demonstrate a move to me. I use what i see at home. So thanks. Do what you do and get that paper

  • regular chick

    AS YOU SAID “…dancing naked for money…being objectified and degraded at the expense of someone else’s pleasure. My damn feet feeling like i been working hard in cotton fields all damn day..Etc etc etc” THIS SHOULD BE ENOUGH 4 U TO HAVE A WAKE UP CALL AND GET OUTTA THE GAME AND DO SOMETHING HONEST AND RESPECTABLE WITH UR LIFE. TO LIFT UP WOMEN (ESP BLACK WOMEN). THIS IS A DEPLORABLE PROFESSION. JUST BECAUSE MEN PAY FOR IT DOESN’T MEAN WE HAVE TO DO IT. YOU ARE VERY INTELLIGENT AND CAPABLE OF SO MUCH MORE. JOIN THE GREAT WOMEN OF OUR HISTORY AND DEMAND THE HONOR AND RESPECT YOU DESERVE.

  • http://www.auterytech.com/ Steve

    Fascinating…and I agree in the most part. Keep up the great work…I will definitely be back soon

  • http://www.yams.com MarkSpizer

    great post as usual!

  • http://www.niksfurniture.com janes bedding

    Fascinating…and I agree in the most part. Keep up the great work…I will definitely be back soon

  • http://www.stripclubseduction.com/stripclubs/?tag=lawrence Stripper Seeking Job

    Hello everyone, I’d like to know if anybody has a recommendation about a good town or city for me to get work as a stripper. I just got laid off and I am willing to basically relocate anywhere fast money. I danced at a strip club here in New Jersey for a few months and I have stripped at a bachelor party or two ;) I am 21 years old and have a great body. Any ideas about a scene with profitable strip clubs to get a job at?

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